Working document · 2026 · Not legal advice
Purpose and scope
This policy governs the use of Safe Messaging — one-way, text-only pastoral messages from authorised leaders to children, under parental approval and independent safeguarding oversight. It sits alongside each church's safeguarding policy and denominational code and does not replace trained people or face-to-face care.
Who may use it
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Only leaders the church has authorised, who are appropriately vetted (including DBS as required by the denomination).
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The church authorises which leaders may use the feature and which children they may contact.
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A child can be contacted only where their parent or guardian has enabled it; family/guardian links are set by church administrators or by the parent at registration.
How it works
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One-way: children cannot reply through the tool.
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Parent approval: every message is routed to the parent and delivered only on approval; an unapproved message expires.
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Independent oversight: the church Safeguarding Lead has standing visibility of messages across all leaders and children — the "second key".
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Text-only: no images or video.
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Audited: who sent each message, what was said, when, and who approved or rejected it.
Acceptable use
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Keep messages purposeful and age-appropriate — encouragement, check-ins, birthdays — not open-ended back-and-forth.
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Never use the tool to arrange private or unsupervised individual contact, or to move conversation onto personal accounts.
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Never replace, and do not let it discourage, face-to-face pastoral care.
Primary-age children
Some denominational guidance advises against direct electronic communication with primary-age children. Churches should apply tighter, parent-directed defaults for this group and may choose not to enable it. By default, under-13s have no login of their own and a parent views messages through the parent's account; a church can enable under-13 self-login only by deliberate choice and with the extra safeguards in place.
Disclosures and welfare concerns
Any welfare concern is handled through the church's normal safeguarding procedures, exactly as for any other interaction, with the additional signal of a parent's rejection note, which is actively reviewed and acted on.
Offboarding
The church manages removal of access: when a leader leaves a role, or a parent withdraws permission, access is revoked promptly and the audit record retained per the Retention procedure.
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