Working document · 2026 · Not legal advice
Purpose and scope
This policy governs the use of Safe Messaging — text-only pastoral messages from authorised leaders to children, one-way by default, under parental approval and independent safeguarding oversight. It sits alongside each church's safeguarding policy and denominational code and does not replace trained people or face-to-face care.
Who may use it
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Only leaders the church has authorised, who are appropriately vetted (including DBS as required by the denomination).
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The church authorises, person by person, which leaders may use the feature. An authorised leader can reach only the children they already work with through their group access; the feature adds an approval step rather than widening anyone's reach.
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A child can be contacted only where they have a contactable parent or guardian on record to approve messages; family/guardian links are set by church administrators or by the parent at registration.
How it works
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One-way by default: children cannot reply unless the church deliberately enables it. Where replies are enabled, a child can only reply to a message already approved and delivered to them, and every reply is itself held for parental approval. A child can never start a conversation with an adult.
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Parent approval: every message is routed to the parent and delivered only on approval; an unapproved message expires. Where a child has more than one guardian, all of them are notified; whichever acts first decides, and the others are told the outcome.
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Independent oversight: the church Safeguarding Lead has standing visibility of messages across all leaders and children — the "second key".
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Text-only: no images or video.
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Rate-limited: a weekly cap on how many messages one leader may send one child, so contact stays occasional. The Safeguarding Lead is alerted as a leader approaches it.
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Every route covered: mailings, Broadcasts and text messages to children pass through the same approval and appear in the same record. Children are never part of group chats.
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Audited: who sent each message, what was said, when, and who approved or rejected it. Changes to a person's age status are flagged for the Safeguarding Lead to check.
Acceptable use
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Keep messages purposeful and age-appropriate — encouragement, check-ins, birthdays — not open-ended back-and-forth.
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Never use the tool to arrange private or unsupervised individual contact, or to move conversation onto personal accounts.
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Never replace, and do not let it discourage, face-to-face pastoral care.
Primary-age children
Some denominational guidance advises against direct electronic communication with primary-age children. Churches should apply tighter, parent-directed defaults for this group and may choose not to enable it. By default, under-13s have no login of their own and a parent views messages through the parent's account; a church can enable under-13 self-login only by deliberate choice and with the extra safeguards in place.
Disclosures and welfare concerns
Any welfare concern is handled through the church's normal safeguarding procedures, exactly as for any other interaction, with the additional signal of a parent's rejection note, which is actively reviewed and acted on.
Offboarding
The church manages removal of access: when a leader leaves a role, or a parent withdraws permission, access is revoked promptly and the audit record retained per the Retention procedure.
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